2025-01-25 –, Coastal West (hybrid classes)
Mental sadism exists because emotional authenticity is sexy! The largest sex organ is our brain, responsible for both the mental and physical sides of sex, BDSM, and other lifestyle relationships. This discussion will focus on how mind games can build emotional integrity and vulnerability to your relationships. Did you know that "using your powers for good" can add creativity, balance, build trust, increase intimacy, and be great fun? BDSM doesn't always have to be about pain, physical implements, restraints, and scene setting. Mental BDSM can include but is certainly not limited to edge play, chastity, anticipation, humiliation, degradation, tease & denial, and sensory deprivation. Mental sadism is also a wonderful way for participants with physical disabilities to employ their dominance and their submission. When using mind games it is important that consent be present at all times. As S&M themes continually become more and more mainstream there is a distinct difference between playing mind games and manipulation, we will also touch on the harmful and destructive behaviors that should be avoided. Like many aspects of BDSM it is a journey filled with many highs and lows. Join me for this in depth discussion on the "highs" of practicing mental sadism.
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Mistress Schari is in the lifestyle (both BDSM & Swing Communities) as an educator, lifestyle consultant, and participant for the last 20+ years. Mistress Schari hosts a monthly lifestyle radio show with her submissive catnip, "Mischief Matters Radio". She also opened the exclusive and seductive Mischief Manor. The manifestation of a lifelong dream to provide the kink community with monthly educational and social events. Mistress Schari has been trained to lead her workshops from several field experts. Her experience as a Professional Domme, sub, and sex-toy specialist combined with her training as an educator, life coach, and public speaker gives Mistress Schari unique lifestyle insights. These insights have enabled her to provide all genders and sexual orientations with a safe and comfortable environment to explore their fantasies.
Mistress Schari uses she/her pronouns.